Friends
I thought I might share with you an email that one of our senior managers has sent around. This gentleman is late 40s, with kids, a lovely guy and a fantastic manager.
The company I work for is very health conscious and he was sent along for a general health check as part of the company program. The doctor found a melanoma on his back mid last year. This is his email from last week:
He is currently in ICU after having a tumour removed from a vertebrae in his neck. I am now off to a skin specialist to get checked over and will not sunbake anymore.
Look after yourselves.
Ecogirl
I thought I might share with you an email that one of our senior managers has sent around. This gentleman is late 40s, with kids, a lovely guy and a fantastic manager.
The company I work for is very health conscious and he was sent along for a general health check as part of the company program. The doctor found a melanoma on his back mid last year. This is his email from last week:
Yesterday I discussed my latest scans with my treating Oncologist. (I never contemplated having one of those).
The result of the discussions is that there is no improvement in my situation, and in fact it is deteriorating. The chemotherapy did not work and there is no other treatment left to try. The tumours in my liver, lungs, spine and lymph system are increasing in size and number, in spite of being on the chemo program.
According to the statisticians, I have between two and six months left on the planet and the driver of the situation will be my liver. The prognosis is that as I run out of liver capacity, I will become more tired and listless, and will eventually lapse into a coma from which I will not recover.
As always, there are the cases we all hear about where someone defies the odds and pulls through regardless. Which camp I am in remains to be seen.
In the meantime, I am in the hands of the palliative care specialists and am getting good attention from them. For us as a family the next few months will be all about living rather than dying. We will continue to make the most of each day and we will be aiming to turn whatever negatives come our way into positives. When I think about my situation I am grateful for the many good years I've had and perhaps it is all about the quality of the time we have here rather than the quantity (quantity being something they tell me I am fast running out of!) But in any case we won't give up and as I've said before "while there is life there is hope".
I would like to see or hear from you if you have some time over the next few weeks.
He is currently in ICU after having a tumour removed from a vertebrae in his neck. I am now off to a skin specialist to get checked over and will not sunbake anymore.
Look after yourselves.
Ecogirl