A relative gave my kids money at birth which i invested in Shares. The shares halved in price. I decided I would forget about the shares and triple the initial gifted money and give it to the kids as a gift from the relative when they were 17/18 to put towards a house, car, or uni fees. I told the relative my plans and after a while the relative wanted the money back, which I gave back. I will give my kids a gift from myself instead when they are 17/18. They currently have about $150 each in savings. I let them do what the want with it. When we are shopping and they ask for stuff that I don't think they need I give them the choice to pay for it with their own money. It's amazing how much they put back! At times they ask me if they can do jobs and get paid for it. Sometimes they'll be saving up for a particular item, or just want to splurge on iceblocks at school or lollies from the shop. Their current school does banking so I'll be setting up accounts for them.