Great post Sunfish. I am just 50 and my parents were born in the 1930s. Mum had to resign when she married in 1958
. Forget equal wages, she couldn't even have a job if she was married.
Just ten minutes ago, my 21 year old son was whining about wishing he could turn back the clock and buy the house we live in for $230K. I said when we bought it for $230K we wished we could have turned back the clock and could buy it for $80K and whoever bought it for $80K remembers when they could have got it for $20K etc etc.
I said one day he will not be able to believe he could buy a house when he was 21 for $300K.
Some of the younger generation will ALWAYS whine about how their parents had it easy, yada, yada, yada. They just need to get cracking, get into the market, get moving, get off the couch, stop buying the latest phone etc, stop spending on wants as opposed to needs etc.
I have been looking for units or houses for my son. He said he doesn't want to borrow to the hilt, but he will have to if he wants to buy. His salary is not high.
He said just this morning that friends who may move in with him to help his expenses will only move in if they have their OWN bathroom and if it is close to transport and/or close to the city. He said (rather dissmissively) that he would rather rent in New Farm than pay a mortgage for a house in Murarrie.
I said "fine.... pay rent in New farm and the house in Murarrie you can buy now for $300K will be $400K in five years and you will not even be able to afford it. You can help the investor at New Farm pay their house off."
My blood boils with his attitude. Typical of many of his generation, his friends have to have a bathroom to themselves. It takes all the pleasure of helping to find somewhere he can afford out of it.
I actually believe his friends would be happy to share a bathroom, except those who already are paying rent and have their own bathroom.
I have suggested we can lend him some money to get him over the line, but his negativity and his attitude makes me think "stuff it - do it all yourself".