Originally posted by Aceyducey
Investor,
If your definition of a successful investor is someone who is ruthless & simply out to make as much money as possible in the shortest possible time, then I'm glad we don't agree
I intend to enjoy my life, be fair to others (ethical) & spread success as wide as possible (helping family & friends).
Ultimately I don't invest to earn money, but to create a lifestyle for my family.
Aceyducey
Hi Aceyducey, Les
Sorry Aceyducey and Les I agree ETHICS are important, but surely if you are investing in property, shares, business etc etc you are doing it to make money and therefore the most successful investor is the one who has made the most. What you do with the money afterwards ie. lifestyle, charity etc etc has nothing to do with how you got it in the first place.
However there are different levels of success and that depends on our goal as an investor. You may be happy with $100 or $200 a week and you may consider that when you have achieved that income stream that you are a success as an investor that is up to each individual, you may consider that you have now created the lifestyle you wanted for your family. But are you a successful investor ?
I consider Murdoch or Packer as succesful investors/business men and they didn't get there by being nice to everybody. There comes a time in investing where you have to have a mean streak inside of you otherwise you will not survive. There are times when you have to be ruthless to proceed to the next level. Now I don't mean you have to do anything illegal but unfortunately you will reach a level were there will be others out there who are going to try and trample on your head to get what they want, and they will, if you are always nice and all you have is a sense of humour.
If you are going to be a successful investor you are going to make some people unhappy, be it the builder you may take to court for not doing the job right or the tenant you are evicting for not being able to pay your rent. You cannot be nice, warm and fuzzy with everybody as you say. In investing you have to make the people you are dealing with understand that your word is final and when you say something you have to follow through and do it, it's the only way people will respect you, they may not like you but they will respect you.
You can still enjoy your life helping family and friends and create the lifestyle you want as you say but these things have nothing to do with becoming a successful investor. You can be mean, grumpy and have the worst sense of humour but you can still be a successful investor because of your ability to make money from property, shares, business etc etc.
Here we are talking about being a successful investor not about being a successful and loved member of the community who happens to own a couple of houses.
Reagrds
Investor
PS. I am not mean and grumpy and I have not trampled on any heads.