Hi all
Just thought i would relay this story and perhaps some may get something out of it.
About three years ago my two sons were still living at home. Son no.1 was 20 and son no.2 was 18.
My sons weren't that interested in school but did complete high school and during this time they both had part time jobs as i felt that it was important for them to develop a work ethic especially if study was not there favoured choice.
Well they left school at 16.
Son 1 got a job and still in the same industry
Son 2 got an apprenticeship and has now completed it.
At the time they were home i kept saying to them they should buy either a house together or a unit for themselves and take advantage of the FHOG.
Son no.1 took on board my suggestions and bought a nice unit in a block of 4 and paid $98000. I painted it and did it up for him and he was happy with his decision. He also kept his older car and persevered with it. He had no credit card and budgetted well.
Son no.2 decided to leave home and move in with one of his mates. He was impressed that this friend came arround with a nice flash car, gold jewellery, latest trendy clothes etc. He was so influenced by this individual he went out and bought himself a turbo charged vehicle,TV stereo on HP etc. Even when i was sitting down and chatting to him at home when he came over i said to him the worst thing you can do is buy a expensive sports car. Buy yourself a unit etc. He agreed even though he had already bought the car and he didnt know that i knew. He had already purchased the car 4 weeks earlier.. In the end he finally told me. I just said i thought from my own experience he would regret it. And what about insurance, he had none even though he told me he did.
One year later son no.2 $23000 in debt knocks on the door for a loan. Car has broken down.
I said i will lend you the money on certain conditions.
My mechanic will check it out
You will sell it immediately
you will have plan to clear your debt, or follow one.
At this point i felt sorry for him. He was working 6 days a week and going backwards when i did his figures there was $29000 going out and $23000 coming in. I feel the situation was caught just in time. (lucky the car broke down).
My mechanic checked it out and he said there is nothing wrong with the car.
So his mates were trying to rip him off for $1800 as they said it had a blown head gasket and parts weren't cheap for this type of vehicle.
Then he did sell it and the total proceeds went towards his loan.
He then moved out and moved in with his brother son no.1 rent free and the otherwise rent money went towards his loan.
Situation today.
Son no.1 sold his unit for $160000 and bought a house with his partner travelling along pretty well
Son.no.2 ended up paying out his loans and returning goods etc. the money he was paying towards his debt was taken as savings and secured a loan and bought a unit. He still has to watch his dollars but he learnt alot. He acknowledges his mistake (which is important) and admits that he was taken a back when he worked out his mate had everything on credit.
Son no.2 took action because he could see son no.1 wealthier based on that decision at the time. He now says i wish i had listened to you then. I just say at your age a mistake is easily turned around with sound advice and direction. The important thing is that you recognise it.
Hope i didn't bore you
Cheers
BC
Just thought i would relay this story and perhaps some may get something out of it.
About three years ago my two sons were still living at home. Son no.1 was 20 and son no.2 was 18.
My sons weren't that interested in school but did complete high school and during this time they both had part time jobs as i felt that it was important for them to develop a work ethic especially if study was not there favoured choice.
Well they left school at 16.
Son 1 got a job and still in the same industry
Son 2 got an apprenticeship and has now completed it.
At the time they were home i kept saying to them they should buy either a house together or a unit for themselves and take advantage of the FHOG.
Son no.1 took on board my suggestions and bought a nice unit in a block of 4 and paid $98000. I painted it and did it up for him and he was happy with his decision. He also kept his older car and persevered with it. He had no credit card and budgetted well.
Son no.2 decided to leave home and move in with one of his mates. He was impressed that this friend came arround with a nice flash car, gold jewellery, latest trendy clothes etc. He was so influenced by this individual he went out and bought himself a turbo charged vehicle,TV stereo on HP etc. Even when i was sitting down and chatting to him at home when he came over i said to him the worst thing you can do is buy a expensive sports car. Buy yourself a unit etc. He agreed even though he had already bought the car and he didnt know that i knew. He had already purchased the car 4 weeks earlier.. In the end he finally told me. I just said i thought from my own experience he would regret it. And what about insurance, he had none even though he told me he did.
One year later son no.2 $23000 in debt knocks on the door for a loan. Car has broken down.
I said i will lend you the money on certain conditions.
My mechanic will check it out
You will sell it immediately
you will have plan to clear your debt, or follow one.
At this point i felt sorry for him. He was working 6 days a week and going backwards when i did his figures there was $29000 going out and $23000 coming in. I feel the situation was caught just in time. (lucky the car broke down).
My mechanic checked it out and he said there is nothing wrong with the car.
So his mates were trying to rip him off for $1800 as they said it had a blown head gasket and parts weren't cheap for this type of vehicle.
Then he did sell it and the total proceeds went towards his loan.
He then moved out and moved in with his brother son no.1 rent free and the otherwise rent money went towards his loan.
Situation today.
Son no.1 sold his unit for $160000 and bought a house with his partner travelling along pretty well
Son.no.2 ended up paying out his loans and returning goods etc. the money he was paying towards his debt was taken as savings and secured a loan and bought a unit. He still has to watch his dollars but he learnt alot. He acknowledges his mistake (which is important) and admits that he was taken a back when he worked out his mate had everything on credit.
Son no.2 took action because he could see son no.1 wealthier based on that decision at the time. He now says i wish i had listened to you then. I just say at your age a mistake is easily turned around with sound advice and direction. The important thing is that you recognise it.
Hope i didn't bore you
Cheers
BC
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