Hubby "retired" three years ago, aged 50. He had enjoyed his job for many years and it had given him the flexibility to work longer hours when needed but with the upside that he saw our kids more than many men do in their growing years, and he was able to come home early and take the kids to the park etc, but the last couple of years it had all changed and he was working long hours and getting stressed.
When he retired (and continuing still) we have a brekky at local cafes probably once a week or so. We fossick about in stores and watch shows together. Hubby fossicks about in the garage doing "things"... reframing pictures.
Eighteen months ago, I started a casual retail job that I enjoy (one to three days a week - up to me really). It gets me "dressed up" and among people, so I would miss it if it stopped. It brings in some pocket money but that is not my motivation for doing it.
Hubby has lots of things to keep him busy. His mother has lists of jobs for him every week or two and she just loves having him there, clucking and fussing over him. He loves his mother but hates being fussed and clucked over, so those visits are pain and pleasure combined
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He has done work on our son's house and does maintenance on the IPs I manage (with my brother) that belonged to our late parents. There is a major reno (kitchen/bathroom/floors/paint/rebuild patio) coming up between now and January and another reasonable size driveway job on another place. We are meeting people to get quotes. We will paint it ourselves and with my brother, do a major landscape job to increase the outdoor/indoor flow.
We also want to put in a second bathroom into one of our IPs in February, so that all needs to be planned, drawn up, shopped for, organised and project managed.
With the bigger reno, we will either rent it again or possibly sell in order to free up cash to buy and reno another place. This is something we are both keen on (and my brother too) but whether it is appropriate in this market remains to be seen. If we buy well and renovate well, we will hold for twelve months and made a decision whether to sell and go again, or simply hold it.
Hubby painted the front of our house, but hasn't had time to do the sides or back yet. Retirement is keeping him too busy to get back to it as yet.
How long he will keep busy is unknown. We'll simply "go with the flow" and work it out as we go along.