That's the mistake people make with super. It's a separate legal entity with its own rules. It's not 'your' money. Similarly, money that you contribute to a trust, say, isn't 'your' money either. You have to play by the rules of trust law.
Super was created to lower the government's costs of providing for people (especially those on lower incomes) in their old age. Try to make it do something else at your peril.
we arent talking legalese here
similarly money in one of my trusts or one of my companies is mine. it isnt technically mine but for all intents and purposes im controlling it
it is the same with super. yes there are additional rules to contend with but ultimately the money is indeed mine. who knows, maybe ive got s different perspective on it because i know some very successful people who do pretty well out of super. ultimately we all need to contribute to it so why not make it work instead of languish? in no way am i suggesting focusing on super at the expense of other vehicles, it will just one day be yet another income stream and i think it's important to have multiple streams.