i'm just wondering if i'm becoming more aware or are, in general, people becoming ruder and less considerate?
to me, if you make a commitment to an arrangement then i believe you should honour that arrangement unless you renegotiate or it's an emergency. i seem to be encountering more and more people (generally socially - playdates, custody arrangements etc - as would be death to a business) who change arrangements willynilly, for no real reason (like, decided to go shopping instead), without consulting and then expect you to fall in line with what they "advise" is happening.
also, i am finding whilst either walking or driving, people are so less considerate and very few acknowledge if you give way rather than barge straight thru.
i find both rude, inconsiderate and disrespectful and could give many more examples of "lack of consideration" but will leave that to others.
it almost seems as if manners and politeness have shot out the window in recent decades. and i'm not talking about the younger generation either ... it seems to cover all age brackets.
**rant over
to me, if you make a commitment to an arrangement then i believe you should honour that arrangement unless you renegotiate or it's an emergency. i seem to be encountering more and more people (generally socially - playdates, custody arrangements etc - as would be death to a business) who change arrangements willynilly, for no real reason (like, decided to go shopping instead), without consulting and then expect you to fall in line with what they "advise" is happening.
also, i am finding whilst either walking or driving, people are so less considerate and very few acknowledge if you give way rather than barge straight thru.
i find both rude, inconsiderate and disrespectful and could give many more examples of "lack of consideration" but will leave that to others.
it almost seems as if manners and politeness have shot out the window in recent decades. and i'm not talking about the younger generation either ... it seems to cover all age brackets.
**rant over