Alex,
For your level of stress, a government job is the only job you should be in. Anything else will have you in a screaming heap within the first month.
Find a professional, sort out your issues first, then consider doing something else.
BR
Hi, just to let you guys know and I dont think many of you know this. I do see a professional. I see 2. I have a mental health condition where its vital I keep my stress levels down. I see a regular pyschologst and pyshiatrist. I also go to group sessions Yep, always working on my issues to keep balanced and healthy. Stress impacts on my condition which means when/if there are major stressful life events it can and often is a trigger for me. Also conflicts impact me too. Actually the last one I had where I had an unresolved issue I coped ok, I was down for a little while but after talking it over and using my coping strategies i've pulled through fine! From experience and new learned behaviours things have improved tremendously for me. I also dont have trouble now in getting to sleep which is major progress for me. Problems used to keep me up at night. I need my 7-8 hours to function.
Yeah I think i have to agree with you. I'm seeing things clearly now. Of utmost importance to me is my mental health and to be in a pretty good paying and permanent public service job that is stress free and secure (sanf) is the best thing for me! It also means longevity in my life. Less sickness. I have to pace myself to get to retirement.
That is the reason why I keep changing investment strategies too. I would love to do some of the things people do on here like developments but its just not for me. It would kill me! I'll go for the buy and hold. 4 or 5 buy and holds over the next 20 years is achievable for me. I'd actually be happy to retire in my early 60's on around the same salary as I'm on today. So property investing is a bit stressful for me but if I dont invest I would be far more stressed about how I would survive come retirement age on the pittance you would get from super.