Jaycee,
I don't think Pushka's post hit the nail on the head at all. I wouldn't give a rats if her relative came from Sri Lanka or Timbuktoo, or anywhere in between.
Importantly though, I also wouldn't care less if they were the nicest person in the world either.
Hardly surprising to hear you say that Dazzling.
By 'nice' I meant that they pay their bills on time, are orderly and respectable, dont have the huge alcohol driven parties etc etc. Gosh, they even have a full time job and University Degree . But from what some have said, their race is more important than their credentials, and they wouldn't even get a chance to prove their 'worth'!