If every couple kept their finances seperate the family court would find their caseload reduced by about 3/4 I reckon.
I guess it all depends on how you look at it. I believe if every couple went into marriage with the conviction that marriage is for life then the caseload would be greatly reduced too. All too many times I have heard young people mention that they are getting married, but if it doesn't work out, that's fine they'll get a divorce.
Now, don't get me wrong, I am not living in fairy land & I do realise that not
all marriages will work out. I just know that there are many times that people enter into a marriage with the wrong attitude. A marriage, like everything in life, takes work. There will be differences in opinion, but if you
both are committed to the relationship many things can be worked out.
If you treat your finances the same way (marriage is for life) then it makes sence to pool your finances as you are combining two separate entities into one. This doesn't mean that one cannot buy a gift for the other without consulting each other, what it does mean is trust. Why marry someone if you don't trust them.
All too often the male is the main bread winner, with the female in the part-time or lower paying job. The female is often the one who buys the groceries & deals with all the expenses of children. If you don't combine your finances, then the female will often be the one hard done by, while hubby has money to burn. This is not the way you treat someone you love, trust & respect.