Just got off the phone after LOOONG tearful discussion with a very good girlfriend.
She is a stay at home mum of 3 kids (she and hubby are both early 40's)
They have a nice PPOR (value mid 500's) with a bit of equity (about 200K)
She REALLY wants to invest and has been saving hard for a deposit. Cut a long story short. Hubby found out about her savings amount. He knew she was putting $$ into an ING account but thought it was just a "christmas account" type thing. She has managed to save nearly $40,000.
Well to say he hit the roof is an understatement. Although he has said yes to the idea of investing in the past he cannot see her saving as a good thing.
On an on about stealing "his" $$ and depriving him of "his" belongings etc etc.
How can she guide him ( if possible - we know you can lead a horse to water etc) OR how can she do it herself with no income??
(She is pretty sure the $40K is going to turn up in a new boat fairy soon
The poor woman is devastated and ready to leave. (which would be sad because even she says they have an OK marriage - just different dreams of the future)
She is a stay at home mum of 3 kids (she and hubby are both early 40's)
They have a nice PPOR (value mid 500's) with a bit of equity (about 200K)
She REALLY wants to invest and has been saving hard for a deposit. Cut a long story short. Hubby found out about her savings amount. He knew she was putting $$ into an ING account but thought it was just a "christmas account" type thing. She has managed to save nearly $40,000.
Well to say he hit the roof is an understatement. Although he has said yes to the idea of investing in the past he cannot see her saving as a good thing.
On an on about stealing "his" $$ and depriving him of "his" belongings etc etc.
How can she guide him ( if possible - we know you can lead a horse to water etc) OR how can she do it herself with no income??
(She is pretty sure the $40K is going to turn up in a new boat fairy soon
The poor woman is devastated and ready to leave. (which would be sad because even she says they have an OK marriage - just different dreams of the future)