The reason why kids aren't allowed to play anymore is because we need to stay competitive with all the parents whose Little Johnny/Mary is breaking state records at little aths, trying out for the philharmonic orchestra with violin, moving from grade 1 up to grade 6 maths because they are so advanced....
You know how it is, talking to other parents about their kids.
Everyone's kid is a genius by aged 3, these days, right?
Hence, my wife and I avoid talking kids with anyone at any time. Hard for her; she's a nurse, surrounded by other nurses who are mostly women with kids.
But really; all the parents need to do is create the balance; create the program of activities themselves...turn the tv off when they want the kids to play, spend some time playing with them, read a book or two, and so on.
Our 4 year old boy spends quite a bit of time on the IPad playing education apps. Great, I reckon...usually does that and watches "CBeebies" station at the same time. Alternates with the Disney Junior channel...then Tikkabilla, then Wiggles, then....
But, like all kids; his attention span is about 3.7 seconds, so I never see him stick at any one activity for too long anyway. Pretty normal I'd say.
This morning we have been out on the bike, been in the pool, been in a water fight with the gurney spray, eaten pancakes, watched 2 episodes of play school, and other mindless stuff.
Right now he's sitting watching no.1 son play Xbox while they share a packet of cheese balls.
Later we'll head down to the beach for a muck around of some sort.
Don't go gettin' all anal, folks.
And; don't wrap them in cotton wool either...does my head in watching parents with that stuff.