A question for all you member without kids. When are you going to have kids?
LOL! we were childless for the first 7 years of our marriage - by choice.
We copped that one all the time - especially by my wife's European parents.
If a couple bring their child to a cafe and that child is annoying other people then it would not be uncommon, nor restricted to childless couples only, for people to have a whinge about it. The child is having a direct and detrimental influence on other peoples lives.
True.
We are parents, but an annoying child is still an annoying child - much like a rowdy drunk adult in the same scenario. Mind you, our level of tolerance might be higher than a couple in the same restaurant who have no kids, because we have the noise volume all the time at home and are used to it. But everyone is different.
As parents, it's actually not the kids which annoy us in this scenario - it's the kids' parents who are getting under our skin for being a selfish and inconsiderate pain in the @rse and not doing something about controlling the child.
Skanky bogan types are usually the worst, because they have no respect for anything, but occasionally you see the opposite extreme; the Yuppy couple who are soft as hell on their kids and think it's ok for their little princess or son to "express themselves" and never discipline them because it will affect their self-esteem...and other BS.
Knowing that loud and out of control kids (and their stupid parents) is annoying, we try our best to avoid those scenarios; go to restaurants and cafes when no-one is there (very early dinner if we ever go; which is hardly ever these days), or do take-away.
A number of cafes etc are catching on and providing children's play areas - one here in town does it, and they get lots of soccer moms with their little kids during the week. The kids can go off to a relativley sound proof room with glass walls.
Lots of pubs have done it, and this is our preferred destination for the occasional family do due to the number of kids in our families which would be there.