Our 32 week old unborn baby has serious heart problems.

Congratulations Jay! She looks lovely and very sturdy for 3 pound 10! All the best to your family for the coming months and years. I am sure it will all go well, my friend was a blue baby and she is now 40 and has 5 kids of her own!
 
Congratulations, she is beautiful! Looks very strong, I'm sure she's a little fighter and will be just fine. Fingers crossed that everything goes well for her.
 
I think it'll be hard for you both leaving Maeve there. (Love that name!!!)

We felt like stealing Daisy away from the hospital b/c we were so over visiting & having to leave her there...(only for 3 wks but felt like a lifetime!)

Awww, must be hard for your wife seeing all the 'healthy' babies...but yours may be streets ahead of them b/c she has a whole family o love waiting for her...hard on the other kids too having to wait for Maeve to come home?

What ops does she have to have?

Not quiet sure yet, she has a hole in the middle wall and some valves are too small. Her first op will be a "shunt" on the outside of the body to fix the flow of the heart to the lungs.

Jay
 
Hi All,

Quick update!

She is 8 days old, taking 9mil of mums milk every 2 hours, hasn't put any weight on yet.

Held her for the fisrt time today and gave her a sponge bath, it was fantastic

Cheers

Jay
 
Hi All,

We have just been dropped a bombshell.

Our beautiful girl has Di George Syndrome / VCFS / Deletion 22q11 They are 3 of the names given to the condition.

My wife are struggling with this new news not because we feel sorry for ourselves or "why us", we just love our little girl and want the best for her.

I keep on saying i have come to terms with "it" but i really haven't because i have know idea what to expect.

But first things first, we need to get our prem little princess over her heart and breathing problems. She is now 1.6kg, we are waiting for her to get to about 2.5 - 3.0kg before she can have her first heart op to put a shunt in.

We keep you updated, as i have said before, SS is just one way i am "releasing" my thoughts

Cheers

Jay
 
although i can understand this is tough, but it's great to have early diagnosis.

so, take one day at a time ... your little princess may have no problems, a few problems, or need extra help - but - knowing early you can give/get her any help she needs.

i think it's fantastic that you know what to keep an eye out for. she has choosen fabulous parents.
 
I agree with Lizzie, at least you found out sooner rather than later.

Keep us posted, i'm sure your beautiful princess with be just fine :)
 
Hang in there Jay. There is information and help out there for you to tap into. It must all be a bit overwhelming at the moment, but just take one day at a time.
Best wishes to your new little one.
Marg
 
'at least' anything is chilly-cold comfort.

the list of symptoms is quite a long one, but remeber, just because she has VCFS does NOT mean she has all of them - she more than likely only has one - being the heart defect.

remember, give yourselves some credit. you created this little bundle of joy who's clearly healthy sans the heart issue (which lets face it, next to the brain, is the next most complicated organ). although any advice is going to be cold comfort until she's home with you.
 
'at least' anything is chilly-cold comfort.

the list of symptoms is quite a long one, but remeber, just because she has VCFS does NOT mean she has all of them - she more than likely only has one - being the heart defect.

remember, give yourselves some credit. you created this little bundle of joy who's clearly healthy sans the heart issue (which lets face it, next to the brain, is the next most complicated organ). although any advice is going to be cold comfort until she's home with you.

We had a meeting with the Genetics specialist yesterday, he said that her only issue at the moment is her heart condition, so no kidney, liver or eye issues. So that was great news for us, i know it sounds funny but we hold on tight to any positives.

She is such a beautiful little girl :)

She has been put onto caffine because she was having low oxegen saturation in her blood, so the caffine helps. Might have to get her a Babycino when she gets out of hospital :D

Jay
 
Hi Jay,

Yeah, definately hold onto the positives! Fantastic news there are no issues with eyes, kidney, liver!!!

How's she going with the weight gain?

How's mum going?

:)
 
I've been watching this quietly and my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Don't underestimate what medicine can do. And hold onto these moments - they are precious and make life worth living.
 
Hi Jay,

Yeah, definately hold onto the positives! Fantastic news there are no issues with eyes, kidney, liver!!!

How's she going with the weight gain?

How's mum going?

:)

Maeve is gaining weight but the more weight she gains, the closer the operations are, funny how your mind plays tricks on you.

Jay
 
Jay,
Great to hear she is gaining weight and doing so well. The hospital staff in the ICU used to say to us little ones are very strong, they have a fighting spirit....and it is true

Ours was born only 730 grs and was abt 2.5 kg when he had his 1st operation while he was still oxygen dependent and was drinking only 12 mls via IV tube. He was t'fered from Royal Women to Royal children in an ambulance for the operation.....Though he stayed in Royal Women for 6 months, though he was 5 months and 2 weeks on Oxygen and so many times we recievde call late @ night early in the morning to come in to say good bye ....BUT he kept fighting and since discharged miraculously no complications, no side effect ...

Now a very healthy teenager - taller and heavier than me :) so tell your wife to believe in Maeve. Our own little angels are really strong and can feel our love...to keep fighting

Cheers, Tracey
 
We had a meeting with the Genetics specialist yesterday, he said that her only issue at the moment is her heart condition, so no kidney, liver or eye issues. So that was great news for us, i know it sounds funny but we hold on tight to any positives.

She is such a beautiful little girl :)
Awesome news, Jay, I'm delighted to hear this.
Gordon Gekko said:
She has been put onto caffine because she was having low oxegen saturation in her blood, so the caffine helps. Might have to get her a Babycino when she gets out of hospital :D
Yeah, give her a few fags for a nicotine hit, while you're at it. :p

Caffeine's an interesting drug. If you're migraine-prone and don't yet have a migraine, caffeine can induce a migraine in some people, so is best avoided. Yet if you already have a migraine, caffeine is often administered for its actions as a vasoconstrictor. :)
so many times we recievde call late @ night early in the morning to come in to say good bye ....BUT he kept fighting and since discharged miraculously no complications, no side effect ...

Now a very healthy teenager - taller and heavier than me :)
That's an awesome story, Tracey, I'm so pleased to hear your story.

Virtual hugs and prayers to Maeve and family. :)
 
Whilst I have not commented until now, I too rejoice in the birth of your beautiful girl Maeve, (I to love her name).

You do have to look and hold on to the positives.

My son when he was 1 week old, corrected dates had a cardiac arrest, he to was on a caffiene drip to stimulate his breathing.

I hope you and your wife and other children are looking after yourself. I recall how difficult it was having a baby in hospital for weeks, I had a little one who I had left at home whilst I was in hospital for 6 weeks, before having my son, then when I did go home I travelled 100km round trip every day, to see my baby, with a little esky of expressed milk. My son was fortunate that he did not have other medical issues, and I only did this for 3 weeks, and another 9 days when he arrested. You have a longer haul ahead of you, take care, all my prayers and sincere wishes are with you all.
 
Thank you everybody for your prayers and your own stories.

It really is a rollercoaster ride, we have our good days and our bad days. And sometimes we have good and bad times in the same day.

The Doctors, nurses and the specialist are so wonderful. We go home to sleep and they stay there thru the night (away from their love ones) and look after our beautiful princess.

Jay
 
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