Hi Tracey. What you wrote above about the phone is EXACTLY how I feel about the phone. With three kids to organise (not young anymore, but plenty of things still to organise) I really hate the "faceless" phone. I would much rather call someone and arrange that they come around for a coffee.
I have one "friend" who rather thoughtlessly rambles on for an hour at a time and I use this time hanging on the phone listening to her waffle on about "me, me, me" while I do things around the house. (I actually do things that I have been putting off .)
I have tried cutting her off, but I don't want to offend her and it is hard to get a word in edgewise. Sometimes I just have to put my foot down and break into her monologue to say "I have to go for school pickup".
If I have to call her, I make sure I do it when I have to leave the house in 20 minutes.
Having said that, there are times when I am glad I am on the phone and not face to face.
One ex-friend, on my gently telling her over the phone that my kids were tired of her kids telling us that their house is bigger, their view is better, their pool is deeper etc, proceeded to say "Yes, our house IS bigger, and yes, our view IS better and yes, our pool IS deeper, but I will speak to my kids and explain that they cannot just tell the truth because it upsets some people "
That is one conversation I am glad was over the phone because I was completely gobsmacked and my face was
The great invention - answering machine.