OK, first point is that this is a tame forum, good. heres a story about another forum that i read only.
Now i play a sport, now we play in a division 1 and there are only 10 teams in the premier league that are on top of division 1.
2 years ago a new family joined this club, both M+D and son and daughter play the sport, now Dad, son and daughter all played division 1 from the club they came from, now they were all selected in our second side, stil division 1, our topside is division 1 too,
the night after the pie night, a brand new user posted along the lines of that the selectors had stuffed up and its the usual way the club is not giving a go to younger better players.
Now at the same time, we all blamed another second side player.
Since then , this person has made 40 posts, all against the club, also, theres another new username who writes simialar stuff against the club. again about 0 time in total over two years
So, during the week they wrote something about how our night side went, the only people whod know about it is the people who were there since they post was made 7 hours later at 550am, so this led the topside players and paid coached to question who it was. Now our topside is one of the closest in the state, all growing up together and no bitching whatsoever
After several investigations we do including reading every post that has been made, these two usernames are the same people as they login 1minute apart at 549am and 550am.
Now, the times they login coincide with the time they get home from work etc.
Over these two years, i have started going out with daughter from the family mentioned, about 1 year all up,
The person who we all belive it is is father fro the family.
Now that leads my long story to my question.
As i play with him in the night competition and see him a fair bit, how do i now treat him, do i confront him about it or just let it go?
There are 4 instances he has had a go at me personally on this other forum..
The sport is lawn bowls for those wondering
Now i play a sport, now we play in a division 1 and there are only 10 teams in the premier league that are on top of division 1.
2 years ago a new family joined this club, both M+D and son and daughter play the sport, now Dad, son and daughter all played division 1 from the club they came from, now they were all selected in our second side, stil division 1, our topside is division 1 too,
the night after the pie night, a brand new user posted along the lines of that the selectors had stuffed up and its the usual way the club is not giving a go to younger better players.
Now at the same time, we all blamed another second side player.
Since then , this person has made 40 posts, all against the club, also, theres another new username who writes simialar stuff against the club. again about 0 time in total over two years
So, during the week they wrote something about how our night side went, the only people whod know about it is the people who were there since they post was made 7 hours later at 550am, so this led the topside players and paid coached to question who it was. Now our topside is one of the closest in the state, all growing up together and no bitching whatsoever
After several investigations we do including reading every post that has been made, these two usernames are the same people as they login 1minute apart at 549am and 550am.
Now, the times they login coincide with the time they get home from work etc.
Over these two years, i have started going out with daughter from the family mentioned, about 1 year all up,
The person who we all belive it is is father fro the family.
Now that leads my long story to my question.
As i play with him in the night competition and see him a fair bit, how do i now treat him, do i confront him about it or just let it go?
There are 4 instances he has had a go at me personally on this other forum..
The sport is lawn bowls for those wondering
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