At one stage, I worked in a school and I learned the "teachers voice".... it is something every parent should learn. There is a way to talk to kids in that calm, malicious voice which immediately lets them know you won't take any crap. Thats come in very useful in this type of situation (both with my own kids and others)....... unfortunately it seems to have lost its effectiveness as my children are heading towards becoming teenagers!
Definitely dont smack a child in public, otherwise you could face legal action and I wouldn't smack any one else's child anywhere. But I would certainly step in if there was violent behaviour.
But, its better to intervene early to stop a bad, violent behaviour rather than letting it happen a few times, and then get angry about it and over-reacting. Kids need to know consistently what the rules are.
My challenge with my son when he was little was more dangerous behaviour rather than bad behaviour. He was always the one climbing on the outside of the playground equipment, onto the roof of the playground equipment (or the house!) , running away, climbing out of windows etc. It was certainly a challenge to learn how to manage his adventurous spirit! I guess he was probably often on his own, cause the other kids wouldnt follow where he was going. So, that was one way to avoid having to deal with conflicts with other kids.
Definitely dont smack a child in public, otherwise you could face legal action and I wouldn't smack any one else's child anywhere. But I would certainly step in if there was violent behaviour.
But, its better to intervene early to stop a bad, violent behaviour rather than letting it happen a few times, and then get angry about it and over-reacting. Kids need to know consistently what the rules are.
My challenge with my son when he was little was more dangerous behaviour rather than bad behaviour. He was always the one climbing on the outside of the playground equipment, onto the roof of the playground equipment (or the house!) , running away, climbing out of windows etc. It was certainly a challenge to learn how to manage his adventurous spirit! I guess he was probably often on his own, cause the other kids wouldnt follow where he was going. So, that was one way to avoid having to deal with conflicts with other kids.