i had a letter a couple of weeks back from one of my vendor finance purchasers. i was called all sorts of things and blamed, as the evil property owner, for the situation she is in. waffling on about how she has had to do without and asking if i want to throw her and the kids out into the street.
let me see ... when she applied, 7 years ago, she was an employed single mum with 2 kids and in a steady relationship (not that i took that into account). earning good income, getting centrelink help and child support. had plenty of funds and a good future.
fast foward 7 years. unemployed for the last 6. 4 more kids to 3 different dads. can't afford repayments. apparently it's all my fault.
am i sympathetic - nope. i am empathetic but it galls that people like that cannot accept that it was their own life choices that got them into such situations.
house is being handed back end of this month ... only $3k behind in repayments!
kind of like that girl on 60 minutes last night, regarding the new liver. destroyed 2 (one donor already, destroyed in less than 6 months) by taking heroin but crying a sob story because she couldn't go on the waiting list for another. but listen to her and her mother and apparently none of it was her own fault - blame the adhd drugs she took as a child, blame the system, blame the cynics ... now she's in singapore taking 1/2 her aunts liver in an attempt to live. hope the aunt makes it through.