I don't expect my BIL to walk around in thongs, wearin a blue singlet and fly hat, sucking on VB's and swearing.
I do expect him to be able to hold down a job, to talk more than passable English, to not live in enclaves/ghettos of only his own race and never associate with anyone else, to not rant and rave about how his religion is better than any other, to not commit crimes in the name of some idiotic cultural theme or religion from back home.
Just be a normal, decent person who is part of the joint. And make me a curry from time to time.
I know many, many folk from different cultures and they mostly retain an interest and a following of their culture.... As you do. No probs with that.
It is not one thing, but a collection of things, encompassing much that is desirable for people to come here....acceptance of folk who want to have a crack, who become part of the fabric, accept others and all religions and creeds.
This is why we have so much diversity.
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thanks for your response. all that have you have described above BV is integration, not assimiliation. 2 distinctly different things.
When you are telling people that if they move here they have to assimilate you are telling them that so much of what they hold dear has to be left at the door, this is why im pulling you (or anyone else) up on it.
How would you have felt if you were told when you moved to america (or any other country) - "look i dont care that you spent your whole life in australia, youre now in america so either be 100% like us or **** off" - that is pretty much what assimilation means, to become just like everyone else.