I have two daughters, 18 and 14, both living at home.
Until now.
I hadn't expected to have an empty nest so quickly.
The 18yo decided to move to Brisbane (subject of another thread). That came with very little notice. I had expected that, if she got into uni, she may go out of Canberra. But she's going up in two weeks, regardless of uni entrance. She has a job in Canberra, and has worked very hard- but was anxious to get out of home. So she arranged a transfer with that job to Brisbane.
The 14yo is going to Mexico to 7 months. She's going to be staying with her grandparents in Mexico City, and will be going to school (3-4 weeks after she arrives). Her Spanish language skills are very basic- but she has a real willingness to learn. She is flying out on December 5.
A big reason for her going to Mexico is for her 15th birthday in May next year. Birthday #15 is the big one in Mexico, and she will be having a big celebration. (#1 daughter had the big birthday in Mexico too, but that was as a part of a trip around the world rather than a stay in Mexico).
It's going to be hard for my wife to be able to deal with me, without the kids around.
Especially at Christmas.
Until now.
I hadn't expected to have an empty nest so quickly.
The 18yo decided to move to Brisbane (subject of another thread). That came with very little notice. I had expected that, if she got into uni, she may go out of Canberra. But she's going up in two weeks, regardless of uni entrance. She has a job in Canberra, and has worked very hard- but was anxious to get out of home. So she arranged a transfer with that job to Brisbane.
The 14yo is going to Mexico to 7 months. She's going to be staying with her grandparents in Mexico City, and will be going to school (3-4 weeks after she arrives). Her Spanish language skills are very basic- but she has a real willingness to learn. She is flying out on December 5.
A big reason for her going to Mexico is for her 15th birthday in May next year. Birthday #15 is the big one in Mexico, and she will be having a big celebration. (#1 daughter had the big birthday in Mexico too, but that was as a part of a trip around the world rather than a stay in Mexico).
It's going to be hard for my wife to be able to deal with me, without the kids around.
Especially at Christmas.