The 14yo is going to Mexico to 7 months. She's going to be staying with her grandparents in Mexico City, and will be going to school (3-4 weeks after she arrives). Her Spanish language skills are very basic- but she has a real willingness to learn. She is flying out on December 5.
A big reason for her going to Mexico is for her 15th birthday in May next year. Birthday #15 is the big one in Mexico, and she will be having a big celebration. (#1 daughter had the big birthday in Mexico too, but that was as a part of a trip around the world rather than a stay in Mexico).
It was 14yo's big birthday celebration today (though her birthday is not for 2 more days, so I can't call her 15yo yet). MrsW is there- and so is her 18yo sister.
The celebration is even bigger than I expected. A church service (and she's very proud that it is at the same church we were married in), formal photos (also where we got our own wedding photos), and a big formal party- involving grandfather's business associates, and many others, along with many friends.
She has done a fantastic job along the way, and I am a very prod father. She has done a great job, of coping with another language for six monrgs, and not only surviving, but thriving. Her level of knowledge before she went was basic, and her accent was so Aussie.
I realise that many other exchange students have done this many hundreds of thousands of times before.
But hey, it's my right as her father, to say how proud I am of her.
As I am also proud of my 18yo daughter, who is studying full time in Brisbane, and working 40hrs+ pw at the Hilton.
But today was my younger daughter's special day.
She has not only coped well in a new language- she has thrived. She is going to an international school, with English and Spanish subjects- but she recently got her best grade in "Civics"- a subject, in Spanish, which looks at the Mexican system of government and how it works.
In recent phone calls, before my wife went over, my daughter was just as comfortable talking in Spanish as in English.
But the down side is I can't practice my limited Spanish with her any more. I used to try to help her improve her accent in Spanish- now she laughs at mine.
My business does not allow me the time to get away- I regret that profoundly.
But at least the rest of the family are there for her big day.