Interesting thread, as I have been wondering how best to involve my wife in the investing process.
Basically, we are a complementary team. There are things that I prefer to do, like fixing things and looking after finances, and there are things that my wife prefers to do, like looking after the kids day to day, and keeping the house beautiful. Nothing sexist in there, it just happens to be what we settled on fairly naturally.
So I have started to do the investing without my wife involvement. That didn't seem totally right though. I explain to her quite often what I am doing. She listens patiently, but is not really that interested. She is quite happy to leave it up to me.
Last year I tried to involve her as part of inspecting investment properties, as she has more time than me. However, we both found this experience a bit frustrating. She felt that I wasn't clear enough on what we were after. That was fair enough as I wasn't sure exactly what to buy. I felt that she wasn't taking much of an interest, not willing to learn about investment properties as part of the process. The places she was the most impressed with, I did not like. I was looking at the numbers, while she always had a different reason to like a particular place.
What I learnt from this is that it is good to involve your partner, however uninterested, as at least you get a second opinion on things. With two points of view, you are less likely to miss something "obvious". The other lesson is that you need to break down the process into tasks that both parties are happy and interested to do.
In the future, I would always involve my wife before putting an offer on a specific property. I would ask her to help in some areas where she has a bit of an interest or at least enjoys doing.
However, I will most likely still be driving the process, as I have more interest in it that her overall.
Cheers,
Basically, we are a complementary team. There are things that I prefer to do, like fixing things and looking after finances, and there are things that my wife prefers to do, like looking after the kids day to day, and keeping the house beautiful. Nothing sexist in there, it just happens to be what we settled on fairly naturally.
So I have started to do the investing without my wife involvement. That didn't seem totally right though. I explain to her quite often what I am doing. She listens patiently, but is not really that interested. She is quite happy to leave it up to me.
Last year I tried to involve her as part of inspecting investment properties, as she has more time than me. However, we both found this experience a bit frustrating. She felt that I wasn't clear enough on what we were after. That was fair enough as I wasn't sure exactly what to buy. I felt that she wasn't taking much of an interest, not willing to learn about investment properties as part of the process. The places she was the most impressed with, I did not like. I was looking at the numbers, while she always had a different reason to like a particular place.
What I learnt from this is that it is good to involve your partner, however uninterested, as at least you get a second opinion on things. With two points of view, you are less likely to miss something "obvious". The other lesson is that you need to break down the process into tasks that both parties are happy and interested to do.
In the future, I would always involve my wife before putting an offer on a specific property. I would ask her to help in some areas where she has a bit of an interest or at least enjoys doing.
However, I will most likely still be driving the process, as I have more interest in it that her overall.
Cheers,