I was wondering how people here invest together with their partners, when outlooks and goals might be different?
With me for example, I've bought a house with my fiancee and she knows that I have 5 IPs and accepts my goals. And while she's good at saving, now that we have a house, she wants all this new stuff. Like a dinning table for >$2k, a lounge (we already have one, but two lounge rooms) >$2k, a mirror $300, etc.
This is on top of the new house, a deck to go with it, an engagement ring, an overseas holiday that we just came back from and 5kW of solar (though that one saves us money).
I really want to fly to Adelaide to buy two IPs in 5112 or 5113, but she doesn't want to go before we book a wedding venue, even though we're planning to have the wedding in October 2015!
She's also not really interested in investing, but is happy for me to do so. And I'm not allowed to tell her how much debt we have.
I don't really want to argue about money with her, especially when we're more financially secure than most of our friends, but lately it has happened a bit more.
Does anyone else have the same issues? How do you go about it?
With me for example, I've bought a house with my fiancee and she knows that I have 5 IPs and accepts my goals. And while she's good at saving, now that we have a house, she wants all this new stuff. Like a dinning table for >$2k, a lounge (we already have one, but two lounge rooms) >$2k, a mirror $300, etc.
This is on top of the new house, a deck to go with it, an engagement ring, an overseas holiday that we just came back from and 5kW of solar (though that one saves us money).
I really want to fly to Adelaide to buy two IPs in 5112 or 5113, but she doesn't want to go before we book a wedding venue, even though we're planning to have the wedding in October 2015!
She's also not really interested in investing, but is happy for me to do so. And I'm not allowed to tell her how much debt we have.
I don't really want to argue about money with her, especially when we're more financially secure than most of our friends, but lately it has happened a bit more.
Does anyone else have the same issues? How do you go about it?