Likewise, I'm coming in late - apologies...
I was interested in your post always_learning - my view is that while we may spend 40 - 60 hours at work, we actually waste a lot of it, for a variety of reasons - getting a coffee, talking (socially) to others, procrastinating, not have DETAILED plans and SPECIFIC goals.
I've been guilty of this and have found that in times when I'm under a lot of time pressure, I get more done in a short space of time that I have in the past week. This is the 80/20 rule at work - 80% of our achievements come from 20% of our effort, 80% of our problems come from 20% of the causes etc etc.
My point is that we all have the same amount of time, it's just that some of us use it well, and some less so (I'd consider myself in the "less so" camp a lot of the time).
For example, how is it that Brenda bought 20 houses, kept a job, raised a family, presumably had a good time etc, while others (me included) had the same time, probably worked as hard, but achieved a lot less? The same can be said for any high achiever... it's use of time.
I think most people need to undergo 'time revolution' as opposed to 'time management' - theres no point doing the same things "more efficiently" - In my case i've realised that 80% of my results have come from just a fraction of my effort (not even 20% of my effort).
So, based on the above, my plan is now to focus on exactly what I want to achieve, and make specific plans to do it, and not get led off the path along the way. This includes being disciplined in eliminating 'time wasting' things which i find easy or enjoy, but which don't help me reach my desired outcomes.
It has taken 6 months of lurking on this forum, while at the same time re-evaluating my long term goals, working out exactly what I want in life, talking to my wife, and interviewing/talking with a lot of people who I think are successful in their area. You may say that this has been 'wasted time' - in fact the opposite is true. I now have a plan for the next (hopefully) 60 years, and its taken a (ralatively) small investment of my time and focussed effort.
So now I don't undertake anything that doesn't meet these requirements. This has been very difficult personally for me to do, as I'm the type who wants to help everyone and be everyone's friend. However as a result, I now feel in control and I'm enjoying a sense of directing my life - I've still got a long way to go, but I'm on the road.
So my philosophy/guiding light now is look at what you are doing (before you look at how you are doing it), and ask.... is this the BEST use of my time, given what I want to achieve.
sorry for the legth of this, and thanks for the opportunity
Ned