Totally agree. I've always been good with money (grew up poor). Always saved and not wasted money on things I won't want a year later. But I spend money on things I enjoy. I'm not into material possessions (well- except houses)
I spend A LOT of money traveling. But it's my passion and I've waited 40 years to do it. I budget carefully, stay in cheaper hotels and travel local transport or budget tours.
Friends (who earn more than us) say "how do you afford it?" They like to go out to dinner several times a week, go top the movies, buy expensive food etc.
Everyone to their own.
I'd rather shop at Aldi and use the savings to travel.
We struggled while I was at Uni and lived on next to nothing. As you earn more, you spend more. We earn decent money and spend on things we want (rather than need) but I could never bring myself to pay for something I didn't feel was value for money (to me). As Kathryn said- if it's worth it to you, then it's value to you. Everyone views this differently.
Someone once asked me why I "waste" all that money traveling when you've got nothing to see for your money and you could buy new furniture or something you can keep. They obviously haven't traveled.
So getting back to the topic I think your attitude to money doesn't change. I have a VERY rich relative who is VERY lousy. Won't spend a cent.
Most people I think ease up as money becomes more abundant but don't change their core attitudes. If I was stinking rich I still couldn't spend $1000 on a handbag. But I would up my class of hotel and ship cabin.
And I always cross my fingers for Business class.
If you can't enjoy having money- what's the point of having it?
PS- Off to Hungary, Serbia, Montenegro and Croatia on Sunday.
Enjoy the holiday !