Being a nice guy has a price. The question is, in this situation, whether you actually have the means to pay that price. In my opinion, you don't.
Talk to a lawyer. Get out of the situation in the cleanest way possible. In my opinion, that involves selling the property. Make SURE the method of resolution means you do NOT have anything further to do with the loan, the property, or your ex. Don't go for that 'I'll just leave my name on the title or the loan just so she can keep living in it'. Get out, you don't have to be a complete bas*ard about it, but you have to have an objective in mind.
And for crying out loud, next time do NOT buy a property unless you control it fully. Don't go for that buying in someone else's name thing, either (unless it's through an entity you and you alone control). There are some great lessons to be learned in your story: I wish you didn't have to experience it yourself, but don't make the same mistakes.
If you want to help people, it's much better to do it from a position of strength. Make money, THEN help people.
Alex
Talk to a lawyer. Get out of the situation in the cleanest way possible. In my opinion, that involves selling the property. Make SURE the method of resolution means you do NOT have anything further to do with the loan, the property, or your ex. Don't go for that 'I'll just leave my name on the title or the loan just so she can keep living in it'. Get out, you don't have to be a complete bas*ard about it, but you have to have an objective in mind.
And for crying out loud, next time do NOT buy a property unless you control it fully. Don't go for that buying in someone else's name thing, either (unless it's through an entity you and you alone control). There are some great lessons to be learned in your story: I wish you didn't have to experience it yourself, but don't make the same mistakes.
If you want to help people, it's much better to do it from a position of strength. Make money, THEN help people.
Alex