The danger with these relationships is the possibility of an unexpected (and unwanted?) pregnancy, and of course the legal ramifications if the girl is under 16.
There are many young single mums getting around who cope really well with it, and many who don't, and their kids suffer in various ways.
On top of that; the girl (and young man if he stays with her and they form a family) have much tougher important youth years through the responsibility of raising a child.
But, having said all this; young love is immensely strong, and what everyone thinks is often irrelevant and the couple do what they want anyway - with or without permission. Seen it happen..
All you can hope for is that the parents are providing good support and advice about the possibilities - maybe the girls' parents be realistic and have a talk about going on the pill, the boy's parents talk to him about condoms etc.
Some might say this is encouraging them to have sex - it's not; I think it is addressing the probable likelihood and hopefully diverting an unwanted result - a lot like educating kids about the dangers of smoking, or drugs etc.
A lot depends on the maturity of the two concerned as well.
It's a tough one; as a father, I wouldn't want my 14 year old daughter driving around in any cars with any 18 year old, or going out with someone that age.
And if the 14 year old girl is a bit on the wild side and rebellious, to say "NO; you can't see that guy or go out" - she'll just sneak off or run away anyway.
Discussing politics and the general economic environment created thus....which affects every property investor in the entire country, with some personality argy bargy thrown in gets shut down......but the discussion of a shag-a-thon between kids is quite OK....
Strange.
The difference between the two topics (so far; we'll have to see how this one goes....) Dazz, is that the Politics debates almost always degenerate into a personal attack-a-thon and folk start carrying on a bit silly.
I love that the Coffee Lounge affords us all a chance to whine and carry on and get a frustration or three off our chest.
We won't all agree, but that's ok, and it's great fun to get into it. A bit like talk-back radio without all the ads.