Hi,
I am in the top 300 posters here but I have registered a new name to hide my identity
I value people opinions on this forum, that is why i have gone to so much trouble to tell you about my situlation.
Married 10 years, with kids.
My wife and i have been growing apart for a year or so now, we have very little in common.
She is hard to live with, i am sure i not to easy either.
3 months ago, i caught her chatting on yahoo or something, i saw a lot of messages she was writing to her male friends, they would make you toenails curl.
Anyway, i confronted her about it, she was shocked i found out. She said sorry and wouldn't do it anymore. So a week later i logged on to yahoo as a guy and started chatting to her, within a couple of days, i had her under my desk, if you know what i mean.
I confronted her agai, i said you are still chatting aren't you, she said yes but just friends........................but the funny thing about all this is, she still tried to hide it all from me.
Yes, i know the question begs, why was she chatting in the first place, was she not getting enough out of our marriage.???
At this point she wanted to get skype, video chat with her family, i said ok. Look she said, i chat to guys, you go and chat to some girls, its just a bit of fun.
So i started to chat to on skype..........i have chatted to lots of girls, not dirty stuff, just friendly chat......................and you guessed it, I have found a girl that i am very much attracted to and she feels the same way.
We have so much in common, so much it is scary.
I have young kids, i am not in love with my wife anymore, sometimes i don't even like her. I have fallen for this other person.
Help!!!
Reallyconfused
I am in the top 300 posters here but I have registered a new name to hide my identity
I value people opinions on this forum, that is why i have gone to so much trouble to tell you about my situlation.
Married 10 years, with kids.
My wife and i have been growing apart for a year or so now, we have very little in common.
She is hard to live with, i am sure i not to easy either.
3 months ago, i caught her chatting on yahoo or something, i saw a lot of messages she was writing to her male friends, they would make you toenails curl.
Anyway, i confronted her about it, she was shocked i found out. She said sorry and wouldn't do it anymore. So a week later i logged on to yahoo as a guy and started chatting to her, within a couple of days, i had her under my desk, if you know what i mean.
I confronted her agai, i said you are still chatting aren't you, she said yes but just friends........................but the funny thing about all this is, she still tried to hide it all from me.
Yes, i know the question begs, why was she chatting in the first place, was she not getting enough out of our marriage.???
At this point she wanted to get skype, video chat with her family, i said ok. Look she said, i chat to guys, you go and chat to some girls, its just a bit of fun.
So i started to chat to on skype..........i have chatted to lots of girls, not dirty stuff, just friendly chat......................and you guessed it, I have found a girl that i am very much attracted to and she feels the same way.
We have so much in common, so much it is scary.
I have young kids, i am not in love with my wife anymore, sometimes i don't even like her. I have fallen for this other person.
Help!!!
Reallyconfused