Dear All
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My daughter and he Pony "pride" at her first local Agricultural Show in the Topsy Ring.
For those, who like me until recently, have no idea about horse showing, "topsy ring" is beginner and every child wins a ribbon regardless of place. i,e, First is Blue, Second Red, Third Green etc....They don't have to wear expensive riding gear except certified safety (note Daughter has helmut AND body armour thanks to nervous Mum) and they get judged on things like cleanest pony, longest tail, fattest pony, etc.. The intent is the judge gets to share around the placing etc.
My daughter got a 1st ribbon ( biggest eyes) and 4 x 4th out of a group of 7 except the last one which was a group of 4.
I can tell you Daddy was very nervous HE would stuff up as the horses get jumpy having so many persons around them. To whit, in a break she rode over to mum to hand in a ribbon and the kiddie ride on train went by and back fired.
"Pride" swivelled 180 degree and daughter had a "stepped off" fall. She ended on butt and tears came with hugs from mum. But to her credit and my immense pride she "sucked it up, dusted herself off" and got back on the horse.
After that was when she got the first and I think
the Judge may have seen and acknowledging the fall and her response. I was especially excited to get fourth best rider out of .....4. She squealed "daddy I got 4th"
And that is the thing. In a country show it is all about fun, learning a skill and being part of the community. Not status, money or pretentiousness.
Daughter is learning to care for another being and not to give up and that it is not the place you get, but to participate that matters. The female judge (who was immaculately groomed in full red coat and top hat by the way) makes an effort to greet and shakes hands with every ribbon given and ties it personally on the horse. The kids feel very special lie meeting the Queen!
And to have three separate dads came up and say "I saw your daughter go down and she is one brave girl. Go on her!" was a nice bonus for me. Usually a fall is game over as the rider and horse gets spooked.
Again, it is all about being in the community and having fun. Prides cost us nothing he is a give away pony and he lives on neighbors vacant block next door. My friend has the float and knows about horses.
Lifestyle at little cost.
Regards Peter 14.7