My list of things: **
** some are generalised, they do not apply to all women, they do not apply to all men. They are simple things to be aware off.
1. Always sit at the table. This is the Sheryl Sandberg thing about Leaning In. Women often are the first to take the outer layer seats around a conference table. *Always* take a place at the table
2. When sitting at the table - participate - don't wait for someone to ask your opinion. A good meeting facilitator will seek opinion from everyone, but don't rely on that. You want your voice to be heard.
3. Raise your voice - in general men get further in their careers because they are vocal about what they are doing, what they are achieving, what they want to achieve, what the company should do to get them there. This is not rocket science but something that women find hard to do. They feel like they are showing off etc.
4. Always think one position ahead. This can be a male trait. Some people are happy in their job, some people naturally grow towards jobs. Some people need to learn to look forwards
5. Take 50% of sick kid time. Mums somehow end up always the one having to take time off when the kids are sick. Negotiate something with your DH and work out who draws the short straw.
6. Don't be the one who 'does everything'. It's the quickest way to burn out - you do not need to be Super Mum or Super Anything. Household work, parenting, shopping, cooking etc are all things that can be shared with your partner or outsourced. No woman ever died wishing she had ironed more shirts, cooked more cordon bleu dinners, created more fancier ballet costumes etc.
I have more but that's it for now.