It's the dishonestly of the situation, and the fact that there appears to be NOTHING I can do about this.
Oh dear,
I don't think you've quite come to terms with what it really means to be a residential Landlord. Having all the responsibilities does not confer upon you many rights at all, as you are finding out.
It's nice when many varied people all say the same thing to you in your time of stress "You cannot do this, you do not have the right to.....we cannot enforce this.....now they have it there is nothing you can do....your only recourse is to.....the tribunal will throw that out....". Joy !!!
Being in Victoria, you are contractually up against one of the strongest Tenancy Union Advocates in the country.....they literally set the agenda for what goes into the RTA - the legislation that controls your "property business".
Apparently they are in agreeance with their WA brethren in that they are calling for a review to the RTA, as they believe the Landlord has too much power, and they wish to strip alot more of it away and hand it to the tenant's side of the Contract. What gave you the idea you had no power to do anything ?? Apparently you've got too much !!!
From your reaction - I guess you differ in your opinion vastly from the people who set the agenda on the subject.
We butted our head against these brick walls for many years and finally came to the only acceptable resolution to our woes as a Landlord.
In conclusion.....as so oft quoted from the magnificent film Once Were Warriors... "It's just your lot in life Gracie"....
I agree with Xenia. Don't get emotional about it. Just grab that compulsory jar of special Ressy Landlord KY jelly (only $ 399 on special in all good pharmacies) and brace yourself Nelly, ya gonna need it.
If I'm not mistaken, this puts the count of "this just isn't right, doesn't seem fair and I can't do anythign about it" up to about # 426.
Big picture....big picture....big picture, just keep thinking about the big picture as all of this unfolds.