If it was an 18 yo girl and a 14 yo boy would we be having the same conversation?
To quote South Park...
Niiiiiiiiiice......
Follow along with the video below to see how to install our site as a web app on your home screen.
Note: This feature may not be available in some browsers.
If it was an 18 yo girl and a 14 yo boy would we be having the same conversation?
They were never in that situation at 14. At that age, wherever they went, we checked where they were going by calling the appropriate people- parents, teachers etc. By 16 they were getting more latitude- but they were really pushing the boundaries by then. As they showed responsibility, they were given latitude..
So because you assume she would go behind your back and see the boyfriend, you wouldn't try to stop her at 14 .
Most 14yo girls I know would not be having sex with 18yo boys because parental supervision and guidance has been good.
When this does happen word gets around, and my experience is most people think it's unacceptable - this includes the older boys.
If it was an 18 yo girl and a 14 yo boy would we be having the same conversation?
If it was an 18 yo girl and a 14 yo boy would we be having the same conversation?
I was a teenager during the 1970s.
Grew up in a place where everyone knew everyone.
Most of the 14 yr old girls dated guys 19-20yrs old.
It wasn't uncommon, nor disapproved by our parents.
So you condone statutory rape
I never said sex was involved...dirty, dirty minds !!!
So what do you intend to do,ring up the police i'm sure they would be interested,but after bringing up 4 girls 14 these days is very different from 20 years ago..Ok,
Some people i know who are in my sporting club, an 18 yr old guy is dating a 14 yr old girl.
Now when i was 18 i know what i wanted !!!
Parents dont seem to mind either - are they serious ? Is it because hes a star at the sport they all play and represented victoria or what?
What are your thoughts?
BTW - the girl seems a normal 14 yr old girl, shes got a 14 yr old maturity as well and body.
So what do you intend to do,ring up the police i'm sure they would be interested,but after bringing up 4 girls 14 these days is very different from 20 years ago..
I intend to do nothing. I think it's a social issue that is of good debate.
Also this girl isnt a tramp that you see at the local shopping centre with a mini on.
What if it was the other way around and the young lady was 18 and the young man was 14,what do you think his father and mother would think?
So every girl with a mini skirt on is a tramp and every 18yo male is only interested in having a girlfriend for sex?Also this girl isnt a tramp that you see at the local shopping centre with a mini on.
So what do you intend to do,ring up the police i'm sure they would be interested,but after bringing up 4 girls 14 these days is very different from 20 years ago..
So every girl with a mini skirt on is a tramp and every 18yo male is only interested in having a girlfriend for sex?
That's some view you have there Shaneelastic, perhaps not all share the same.
Sure, but you started this thread on the premise that you didn't agree with the complacency of the parents involved. Aren't they also entitled to their opinion?Thtas my view and I'm entitled too it.