Thanks for the replies. I must say I would prefer that he work this out for himself, and appreciate the comments saying that he needs to negotiate and/or make his own decisions. I do agree. Being the youngest, it is easy to fall into the old "do everything for the baby" thing
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The owner did make a comment along the lines of "we train people up and it takes time and costs us money so we want to be sure he wants to work here". I do know that our son doesn't want to let him down in this respect, but really that all may come down to whether or not he is doing the right thing by our son, which we will find out as times goes by.
If it turns out that he is using him for cheap labour, then I suppose if our son leaves, it is as a result of the owner letting our son down, and it will be up to him to make sure they know that is why he is leaving. But let's get him started first
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All good so far, he seems to have enjoyed being there. I only met with the owner when I went there to buy us dinner and I made a comment to our son. The owner asked me "do you know him?" I said he was my son. He shook my hand, introduced himself and his other staff. As I left, the owner was coming back from somewhere and we met again. He told me our son is a nice kid, learns quickly and that he will pay him the same as his long time staff. He seemed very open and friendly, and I felt good about him.
I really do think this will do our son a world of good, get him off the couch, give him some responsibility and work ethic in exchange for a fair wage. If he can get a higher hourly rate elsewhere, he needs to consider whether the trade off is worth the slighly less pay. It's not like he will be working 40 hours a week, so even a couple of dollars per hour less for maybe ten hours per week is worth losing if the trade off is working for nice people, and enjoying that work, being able to walk there at the end of our street etc. Plenty of upside...
Thanks to everyone. It is always good to bounce things off other people's experiences and knowledge.