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Nope, some do it from the front seat...Kristine.. said:Us wives aren't all back seat drivers, you know!
aussierogue said:50 pct of marriages end in divorce and 50 pct of divorces are due to financial difficulties. Limit the risk by bringing your partner with you (metaphorically speaking) when you make decisions. Its the only practical and wise way to go.
Its a big issue - people dont realise that!! We spend more time thinking about where to holiday.......
Actually, 95% of statistics are made upaussierogue said:'Hi Aussierogue,
Where are you getting this statistics from?'
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Hi Amok - Id like to say i got the figures from the Funk and Wagnells but the truth is i made them up! but they sound about right dont they! i think divorce rates are at around the 45-50 pct mark. And something tells me that financial stress is the leading reason for divorce apart from supporting different football teams.
truth is most divorcees cant give you one reason why they no longer feel the love. it happens over time. Stressing and arguing about money is one of the main reasons.
Any boffins out there with the real statistics????
Hi Jakk,Jakk said:Wife: "...and how long have we owned that"
Jakk "had it for ages" ( settlement due in 2 weeks)
Wife: " ...so whats this I have to sign?"
Jakk " er... just some form for the bank" (Transfer of Land Document)
Wife: "...why do they want it?"
Jakk: " er I don't know, probably changed manager again or some
internal review, there's no problem really"
Wife: "you haven't bought more land, have you?"
Jakk: " NOOOO, Its just a form they want signed OK! ( fingers were crossed)
Wife: "Alright alright, I'll sign it"
above conversation not reported verbatim but as close as human memory allows.
Take note Gordon & others, where there's a will there's a way
Actually make that 96.2% of stats are made up !Thommo said:Actually, 95% of statistics are made up
quiggles said:Couldn't do it without her.
She provided the inital impetus, she puts the brakes on when I get too 'out there', she provides focus and she runs the book keeping systems.
I do other things. We are very different, but we are a team and investing is a team sport.
One thing you might try, if she is a book oriented person - borrow heaps of different investment and self-actualisation books from the library. Don't press her hard to read them, just say (about the occasional one) "You might find this interesting..." Take no for an answer.
This really works. she does it to me all the time
Truly best wishes for this, it's an issue that you HAVE to address, to ensure you can both be comfortable with what's going on.
GeoffW said:So we've helped each other along the way.