I don't think anyone (certainly hope it wasn't me) has said that raising children is "the most difficult job in the world"
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These jobs in your post certainly don't equate with the jobs that most people posting here would be doing. Like mrsdawnrazer said, most people on here seem to be white collar, IT etc. So let's not muddy the waters by comparing anything that ANY of us do with that list of extreme jobs.
For the record, my husband worked for several years underground at Mt Isa, and he still reckons he would rather work in that hot, dirty and dangerous job than be at home with the kids.
I think what annoys some men is they think women are saying "look at me, I'm so special because I've raised kids". All we want is acknowledgement that the job we do for years, is worthy of being treated with respect, and not ridiculed as "easy" or some kind of freeloading on the poor man who has to work for money to allow his partner to be home with the kids.
I didn't get any lattes or "me time" on anything like a regular basis, that didn't involve going to another mother's house for a cuppa, whilst supervising more kids than normal (watching the kids of the woman making the coffee) until the youngest went to kindy (that is 12 years after our first was born).
Sure, I wasn't digging for coal underground, but neither are any of you "gentlemen" who are ridiculing those of us who say raising kids is not "easy".
Maybe if a few of you walked a mile in our shoes you would see things differently. I believe we women defending our "work" in the home are not bagging out your jobs or efforts, but why is it okay for some of you to bag out what clearly "some" of you know very little about?
And for those men who have supported their women in this thread, I say "thank you" from all women who have made the difficult choice to take the often harder path than going to work and putting the children into care. I think your wives and partners probably cherish you as much as I do my husband for allowing me that choice.
Some women don't have a choice because they have to go back to work, and some women choose to go back to work and I don't judge those that do that. It was our choice too and I count myself lucky I had that choice.
I also pretty much gave up my option of going back into the type of job I left, but that was also a choice I made and have no regrets about it now.