I too am 37 years old. I am about 20 kg overweight. I have had a problem with my weight since i was a kid yo-yoing up and down a few times. Since 2005when i stopped exercising the weight piled on. Been struggling ever since. Before this sports and vigorous excerise really helped to keep my weight at a reasonable level. Even during the stages when i was eating crap i didnt get too large.
I lost around 10 kilos over the course of a year but have put half of it back on over the past 8 months. A month ago I tried again to start to lose weight but after a few weeks I started to find it tough as I really love food.
I vigorously exercise 4-5 times a week. This includes strenous f.ooty training 2 times a week. I am now just trying to moderate my eating. Like for instance, i go food shopping every 3 weeks. I have allowed myself to buy a chocolate easter egg but i tell myself only to eat the chocolate once every 3 weeks. Before I used to be a huge chocolate addict and couldn't control it. This is working nicely for me as im in control now not the chocolate.
Another example.... I love full fat cheese! Doesnt everyone?? I know I would over induldge in it if I bought it for my own fridge. So here is what i do. I only eat it when i visit mum and dads house on the weekend. So I'll have it on 1 slice of bread but on the other slice of bread i will have a fat free cheese single.
This is working well for me too.
Its really a lifestyle thing. I love my food a lot. I figure I will be ok as long as I dont use food for comfort, boredom or stress like i have done in the past. Eat in moderation and continue my vigorous exercising. So what if i dont get down to 60 kilos. I am learning to be happy with body the size it is. It is doing everything I need it to do. I'm physically and mentally healthy, im getting fitter, im able to move well/run. Not everyone is designed to be a size 8.
If I keep thinking this way and acting this way then im sure the kilos will fall off naturally. I do believe in the set point theory in that humans are designed to stablilize at a certain weight and thats fine by me. Thats why when i did get down to 57 kilos back in 1998 i only stayed at that weight for a few weeks before moving up to 63 kilos. 63 is the weight that i maintained. I try to make sure i just eat when im hungry and in moderation.
Good luck with things. Keep healthy and keep at it!
I'm male, 37 years old and in the 3rd week of my weight loss journey. I have lost 3 kilos (107 kg now from 110 kg) but I think I've already hit a bump and I feel my weight loss has stagnated (or I am just paranoid and frustrated!). My aim is to lose a kilo a week and my goal is to lose 30 kilos healthily in 8 months.