Hi All,
We had a 13yo boy stay at our place a couple of nights ago, he is our sons friend. This boy is very well known to us and we are good friends with his parents.
My daughter and the younger kids went to bed about 10pm, my son and the boy stayed up late playing PS2 (as they do )
During the middle of the night, our youngest son and this daught came to to us at seperate times to say they couldn't sleep, very strange for my daughter to do this.
Anyway, two days later (yesterday) she came to me and said, "this boy" was standing in my room at 2.40am, he wake me up and told me that he loved me , i told him to bugger off"
Now of the surface, this seems "cute" but her went into her bedroom.....my protective father instints kicks in.
What do we do?
1. brush it off as a cute thing
2. Take to his parents and leave it at that
3. same as 2. but not let him sleep over again
4. never let another boy have a sleep over at our place again
or
My daughter good be streatching the facts a bit, its been known to happen before.
But I have to believe her or she will never talk to me about this type of thing again (if it happened again)
Advice please
GG
We had a 13yo boy stay at our place a couple of nights ago, he is our sons friend. This boy is very well known to us and we are good friends with his parents.
My daughter and the younger kids went to bed about 10pm, my son and the boy stayed up late playing PS2 (as they do )
During the middle of the night, our youngest son and this daught came to to us at seperate times to say they couldn't sleep, very strange for my daughter to do this.
Anyway, two days later (yesterday) she came to me and said, "this boy" was standing in my room at 2.40am, he wake me up and told me that he loved me , i told him to bugger off"
Now of the surface, this seems "cute" but her went into her bedroom.....my protective father instints kicks in.
What do we do?
1. brush it off as a cute thing
2. Take to his parents and leave it at that
3. same as 2. but not let him sleep over again
4. never let another boy have a sleep over at our place again
or
My daughter good be streatching the facts a bit, its been known to happen before.
But I have to believe her or she will never talk to me about this type of thing again (if it happened again)
Advice please
GG