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It's so nice to know that part of the tall poppy thing is that there are people around who would just love us to trip up and fall on our faces - even some here on somersoft (and I don't mean the trolls).
But we can only fall back to where we started and that's where the nay sayers or anti poppies are right now.....so what is the risk really? The greatest risk is doing nothing cause that sure won't being about success of any description.
Can you imagine me at playgroup while the sole mothers complains bitterly about her rent rising again (still way under market) and some-one else complaining about how late her husband works and I wonder how to mention that my week has been hell because I have been trying to finance out of my development loan.
Looking back, I have always been a little like a fish out of water, when relating to others, because my mind just doesn't work the same way.soooo true - it means that it is hard to make conversation with the other mother's at the school gate, even small talk is difficult because i spent the day talking to brokers and agents and conveyancers and council rather than at the latest sales.
how can you explain self managed super funds, joint ventures with trusts, developments and finance ... you don't even bother ... fortunately i have a small group of friends who are also on the development path (some winding down, some gearing up) and they are priceless.
I can't talk about our investments to our family, as they think that anybody holding many investment properties must be a greedy capitalist. People see us much more negatively because of the wealth we have.
At work, I keep quiet about my investments activities as most people wouldn't relate to the numbers involved. I don't want to brag. Simply hinting that we don't have a mortgage (for our PPOR) doesn't go down well.
They don't come out and say that they want you to fail, but you see it written in their eyes.
Yep, I'd be stopping paying that HELP debt yesterday. Oh dear, I have twin 7yo boys - is this what I have ahead of me?When I reminded him that $20 wouldn't cover even his weekly food by a long, long shot, and reminded him we are paying his HELP debt in advance, he told me that it didn't help him, as it is not something that he sees now.
My MIL implies this fairly frequently. The frustrating thing is that she knows that I make more through my efforts than hubby does through his - even though he has a good income. (So does hubby; he's just waiting for me to tell him he can stop going to work, too. )I have been called a parasite (because I "live off" my husband and do nothing all day long hehehe)
HI there ladies
maybe there should be a MIL thread because I think we would all have stories.
I know my MIL thinks my promoting trusts to hold property is just a method of depriving my husband of his property. I know she was encouraging him to get independent advice to protect himself.
When trying to explain to my MIL the purpose of trusts - did ask her why did she think most small business owners use trusts and why people like the Murdochs and the Packers do? Her answer was along the lines - they are all greedy and want to defraud the tax office...
Need I say more...
thanks
Her answer was along the lines - they are all greedy and want to defraud the tax office...
thanks
May I ask the nature of their concern? Do they think you're pushing up prices for FHBs? Are they concerned you're over-extended? Do they think you've "got enough"? Excuse the probing - it's just that the nature of their concern makes a big difference to the advice I'd give.
I find that a when there are threads polls where people write 800K gross $200K equity I hesitate tow write down my real numbers. I am not sure what the emotion is - embarrassment? Self conscious? Shame? threatened? I am unsure what the exact emotion is but it leaves me feeling uncertain whther its best just to keep quiet, keep vague or I dunno. Am I the only one who feels like this? Am I just paranoid? Does no-one really care?
For me, knowing a person's net worth helps me with 'input filtering'. That is, I don't have time to take advice from everyone, so I need to pick and choose who to take advice from. Obviously a person's net worth isn't the only criterion, but it's one of them.
For example, whenever there's a news story quoting some 'expert', the first question that pops into my head (for better or worse) is "Okay, how rich is this person?".
On the flip side, I'm not so concerned if people take my advice or not.
-Ian