I'm the same ianvestor & skater, i don't treat mine like a little baby anymore, he's a little boy now. I don't like seeing people encourage sulking either, i much prefer seeing a happy child.
I've found that making a joke about an accident or injury is often a quick way of stopping a child from crying, even make them laugh. Something like 'did you try to fly like superman?' etc once they are happy i'll remind them how silly that was, & ask if they are going to do that again.
It's one thing to state an opinion, such as 'i think it's cruel to lie' or 'i feel sorry for a child who is being put down', but to tell a parent that you feel sorry for thier child, is getting personal.
Bad manners combined with poor interpretation skills is a bad mix imo.
I never said that xmas shouldn't be enjoyed, it just doesn't need to be lied about.
Adults still celebrate xmas, even enjoy the wonder of not knowing who gave them the present when it's marked from santa.
Kids want to be treated with respect, and want a little responsibility too, they don't want to be treated like a toddler forever.
All 11yo should be educated and confident enough to keep themselves out of trouble. If the 11yo girl hasn't been told the ugly truth about some of the risks she faces out there, then whos at fault? The parents/guardians of course.
I've found that making a joke about an accident or injury is often a quick way of stopping a child from crying, even make them laugh. Something like 'did you try to fly like superman?' etc once they are happy i'll remind them how silly that was, & ask if they are going to do that again.
If this is still how you interpret what i've posted, then perhaps you just think the worst of me?Vincenzo, you said my reading was poor, but am I not reading this correctly? He is three years old. Why burst his bubble by telling him his colouring is messy?
Did your parents do that to you?
It's one thing to state an opinion, such as 'i think it's cruel to lie' or 'i feel sorry for a child who is being put down', but to tell a parent that you feel sorry for thier child, is getting personal.
Bad manners combined with poor interpretation skills is a bad mix imo.
You think that my opinion stated in bold was me misquoting you??? I'm trying to explain that every month can be filled with activities, not just xmas, easter & bday, or less as too many kids unfortunately have it. When every month is awesome, full of fun and educational activities for them to earn and keep them occupied, xmas is then just another good month.Now who can't read.
I never said that xmas shouldn't be enjoyed, it just doesn't need to be lied about.
Adults still celebrate xmas, even enjoy the wonder of not knowing who gave them the present when it's marked from santa.
Kids want to be treated with respect, and want a little responsibility too, they don't want to be treated like a toddler forever.
All 11yo should be educated and confident enough to keep themselves out of trouble. If the 11yo girl hasn't been told the ugly truth about some of the risks she faces out there, then whos at fault? The parents/guardians of course.