Get back to me when you have teenagers and let me know how you coped with your children learning to grow.Zen is not enough!Let your teenage children make their own choices. This is how they both learn and grow.
MTR-Imo appropriate piercings are ok,let them get a tatt at 18 if they still wish to do.IF there goin to get a tatt at 18,maybe at least get something that means somethings not your average skull n bones etc etc.